‘My husband’s phone is the third person in our marriage’

Dear A&E, I’m feeling rejected and jealous… of my husband’s phone. It’s the third party in our otherwise happy marriage. He is always on it – at…

‘My boarding school bully has started working with me – and pretends she didn’t make my life hell’

Dear A&E,  I’m a 45-year-old woman and I’ve found myself working in the same company as my boarding school bully.  She pretends nothing happened and actually makes…

‘My husband is refusing to cut off his man bun. How can I make him see that it’s ridiculous?’

Dear A&E,  My husband – whom I absolutely love – has grown a ridiculous man bun. I don’t know what he’s trying to prove or who he’s…

‘My neighbour stalked me for two years’

As I left my client’s office, I froze. My neighbour, Tim*, was standing on the other side of the street, staring at me, for the second time…

‘My husband and I can’t agree on how much to spend on Christmas presents’

Dear A&E,  I come from quite a ‘conservative at Christmas’ family, where we give one meaningful gift, but Christmas at my in-laws’ is a present-fest: they spend…

My husband wants a hair transplant – is he having a midlife crisis?

Listen, Rattled, here’s the rub: you journey through life together for 28 years and suddenly your partner develops new preoccupations. Are these changes symptoms of a deeper…